Saturday finally came and the kids got ready to meet their host families. Since I still had a lot of preparation work to do, I left out some cereal and bread for the kids and told them to fix their own breakfast. After that, they still needed to clean up the house and fold up their bedding. I give the boys +10 bonus points for having the cleanest rooms. And the girls? Um... Well, I believe in positive re-enforcement, so let's give the girls +10 bonus points for simulating what a tornado would do to a bedroom! Nice science project, girls! :-P
After a few gentle reminders from me, the kids finally got to work and the house was reasonably clean by the time the host families arrived. I have to admire their mental toughness. The kids were very nervous about meeting their host families, but they still packed their stuff, cleaned the house, and got themselves organized without too much prodding from me. Again their parents should be proud of them. They've been very good this whole trip, and they've displayed a lot of maturity and responsibility too.
We had planned a "picnic" at the parsonage house around 2:00pm, but the Konens wanted to pick May and Jan up early because they had plans to see an ice show in the afternoon. So the girls would be the first to leave the group. When the Konens finally arrived at 11:00am, everyone rushed to the windows to see their car drive up and to get their first look at a host family. Then May and Jan got their gifts out of their piles and gave them to Mrs. Konen. Mrs. Konen seemed very nice and I'm sure the girls will be in good hands with her, however May and Jan looked very sad to be leaving their friends. As the girls loaded their suitcases into Mrs. Konen's car, the rest of the group said their good-byes. All week long I'd been teasingly asking May, "Are you going to miss me?" To which she would laughingly reply, "NO!!" (At least until I pulled on her nose long enough to get her to say, "Yes!", haha!!). But as the girls got into the car, May started crying and that started Jan crying too. I asked May, "Aw, are you going to miss me now?" To which she finally replied, "Yes!" :').
Jan and May with the Konens
After that tearful farewell, it was James (Jetnipit) and Sea's turn to go. The Kupskys had originally planned to pick them up around 2:00pm, but they surprised us by pulling up around noon. The boys weren't quite ready to go, but they didn't complain. They got their gifts and suitcases together while Justus Kupsky and Jet played some basketball. I talked over some details with Mr. Kupsky and then the boys loaded up into the car and drove off to a basketball tournament.
Sea and James with the Kupskys
So now our little group was down to seven. The house seemed quieter already and the kids were a bit subdued. Their week in Valders was coming to an end and their tight-knit group was breaking up. So we quietly cleaned up the house and prepared the food for the meet-and-greet picnic. Around 2:00pm the rest of the host families showed up. The Millers, Brills, Popes, and Rycrofts crowded into the house (the Franks got a bit lost and showed up an hour later, which worried Jet quite a lot!). At first, the Thai kids hid in the kitchen, while the host families talked in the living room. While I was in the kitchen getting some drinks, Sky came running into the room and hid behind the refrigerator. She said to me, "Teacher! My heart is going 'Boom! Boom!'" Hahah!
When the Popes showed up, TJ immediately introduced himself to Tong, "Hi! I'm TJ!" and Tong replied, "Hi! I'm Tong!" So I knew those two would get along just fine. I also encouraged Gam to show the Miller kids how to make paper birds, which helped her break the ice with them. Later on, I found Tong and Gam playing with the Miller kids downstairs, so they seemed to be doing very well. The older kids, however, needed a lot of encouragement to get them out of the kitchen and into the living room where the host families were.
James (Jirayu) looked very sad to be separating from Gird and Sky. He looked like a puppy that had just been kicked :-(. I talked with him a bit about focusing on the positive and how it was important for him to think about what he had, not what he was missing, but I could see he was probably going to suffer from a bit of homesickness once the group broke up. Jump seemed to be getting along well with Adam Rycroft (the Rycroft's son), but he came up to me at one point and asked, "How old is Adam?" I told him that Adam was about the same age as Jump, but he didn't believe me because Adam was so tall! Haha! Jet seemed to be doing fine as long as he had a basketball in his hand, so he and some of the boys were playing ball outside and becoming fast friends. Basketball seems to be a universal language that all boys can understand. When Tyler Frank showed up, it immediately became clear that the Franks would have to deal with two teenaged comedians, so even though Jet was a sport nut and Tyler was a computer nut, I think they'll do fine together.
My parents stopped by to say good bye to all the kids too. They really enjoyed having the kids over to their house and I think my Dad is actually going to miss them!
After some good food, some introductions, some jokes, and some pre-planning for the baseball game, the host families began to take the kids home. The kids stuffed their suitcases into each car and said their good-byes. As each car drove off, our group got smaller and smaller until I was alone in an empty house.
James with the Nelsons
Gird and Sky with the Brills
Jump with the Rycrofts
Jet with the Franks
Gam with the Millers
Tong with the Popes
It's been a great week and I'm very happy with the way things went. We had a few minor problems, but nothing unexpected. The kids were all really great and it's been wonderful sharing this experience with them. I'm not sure if they're going to miss me (haha!), but I'm really going to miss them!